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Sunday, January 07, 2007

December-May


As you may know, Older woman and younger man relationship is become more of a vogue these days. There are a lot of celebrity couples like this, to name a few, Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher. Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins. Anjali and Sachin Tendulkar.
It seems almost one-third of women between ages 40 and 69 are dating younger men (defined as 10 or more years younger). According to a recent AARP poll, one-sixth of women in their 50s, in fact, prefer men in their 40s.
Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D., a licensed family therapist in practice in Long Beach, Calif., and author of "The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again", tells WebMD that
It's not what you think -- the stamina or "re-boot" ability of the younger male. The women like the flexibility and sense of adventure of their more spontaneous, younger companions

Though this is spreading slowly, its still not being accepted easily in the society.
Why is that the man needs to be older than the woman? Does it really matter who is older in a relationship?
I had one such conversation with my friends recently, so one of my friend was saying that women think matured sooner than men and thats why it is preferred to have the an older man and younger woman relationship. But I was not convinced with the explanation. So when I gave a little thought on this, I was wondering if this trend of older man and younger woman was due to the patriarchy that existed across the World. Due to the patriarchy, they wanted the men to be in full control always and it was easier to achieve if the man was older than the woman. Now that woman are becoming more independent the patriarchy is reducing and thus older woman and younger man relationship has started blooming.
After this thought I was even more curious about the reason and so tried searching the Internet. That is when I came across this Fertility and evolutionary psychology theory in Wikipedia. As per that article women begin to lose their fertility as they enter their late thirties. While men remain fertile until much later in life, although it declines over time. The evolutionary psychology suggests that people are more likely to be attracted to people who look like they might be fertile. But all these being said, I feel these theories would have evolved in recent years. But older man and younger woman relationship has been followed for many years. So I feel my reasoning more convincing than these. What do you think?
Interestingly, there seems to be a folk formula that has been evolved to compute correct disparities of age between older and younger partners, this being "divide by two and add seven", else the relationship is liable to be subject to moral disapprobation. I feel the age disparities suggested by this formula seems more.

Sources: MSN, Wikipedia

Varta...

128 Comments:

  • At January 07, 2007 12:54 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    ha ha ha romba naal atchu first comment pottu :-)

     
  • At January 07, 2007 12:55 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    vallavan la sombu Nayan ah love pannuvaaney andha maathiriya...sari meethi naalaiku aapice poi padichitu solren :-)

     
  • At January 07, 2007 2:09 PM, Blogger KK said…

    Hurray!!! Syam first!! inthaanga Bacardi :)
    Oru Demi moore photo pota first comment potuteenga??? therinjiruntha I would have put that long time ago :p

     
  • At January 07, 2007 3:08 PM, Blogger Arunkumar said…

    me the second :)

    enakkum vallavan sombhu padam thaan nyabagam vandhadhu... :P

     
  • At January 07, 2007 3:08 PM, Blogger Arunkumar said…

    good thought kk... even i have heard the same reason ur friend said.. mathapadi, no nyanam to think of a reason :(

     
  • At January 07, 2007 6:15 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    KK neenga Demi moore padam pottathaala thaan first comment...ithuvey Drew Barry Moore padam pottu irundheengana comment
    minus 5 la pootu irupen :-)

     
  • At January 07, 2007 6:18 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    neenga solrathu konjam osichu paarka vendiya visayam thaan...if there is no proper science behind it and its gonna be a trend...enakum oru chance kidaikalaam Aishwarya oru naal enna date panna koopitaalum no wonder :-)

     
  • At January 07, 2007 6:24 PM, Blogger Keshi said…

    I dun believe that age really plays a part in any r'ship. Love sees no age, color, caste, creed etc etc. Love is totally blind :)

    Keshi.

     
  • At January 07, 2007 7:50 PM, Blogger Isha Reddy said…

    I'll give you a more logical explanation dear!

    Its becoz Women are more financially independent

     
  • At January 07, 2007 9:02 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    Unga friend sonna explanation dhaan naanum kelvi pattirukken.. :)

    @Syam : //ithuvey Drew Barry Moore padam pottu irundheengana comment
    minus 5 la pootu irupen//
    Thala.. sunday adhuvuma ippadi theliva irukkeengalae.. veetla indha vaaram freeya vuttutaangala ungala?

    //enakum oru chance kidaikalaam Aishwarya oru naal enna date panna koopitaalum no wonder//
    Appadiyae konjam thirumbi paarunga.. abhishek ungala kola veriyoda paathuttirukkaru.. :P

     
  • At January 07, 2007 9:36 PM, Blogger ada-paavi!!!! said…

    neenga edhavathu older women ku route vidrangala? pidichirundha ok dhaane ;) aduku apporam enna problem

     
  • At January 07, 2007 10:57 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @Arunkumar - Hmmm aamam sombhu solvaanla... :) hehe Thanks Arun :)

    @Syam - Ippo solliteengala thalaiva... aduthu vera yethavathu post'ku Drew Barry Moore potuduren... :D
    Ungalukkuma??? yenakkum Aiswarya kitta irunthu date'ku invitation vanthuthu.... seekiram meet pannalamnu irukom :)

    @Keshi - I too believe on the same... Love is very blind that's Why I am still single :D

    @Isha Reddy - That explanation kinda fits into my reasoning :)

    @G3 - Neenga yenna sollureenga? Ithayum arum comment'la irunthu copy paste panniteengala? :D
    //abhishek ungala kola veriyoda paathuttirukkaru.. :P//
    Avan kidakaraan Sundaika...

    @Ada-Paavi - Innum route vidala pa... Nammala vida chinna ponnu than kidaika maatenguthunu... vera area'la thedalamnu than ketan :D

     
  • At January 07, 2007 11:07 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    hehe.. sondhama type pannen pa.. nambunga :P

    //Avan kidakaraan Sundaika...//
    actualla avan kedakkaraan panamaramnu sonna correcta irukkum ;-)

     
  • At January 07, 2007 11:09 PM, Blogger brute said…

    love huva ..abb ye naa poochoyy ki ye kab huva... ;)

     
  • At January 07, 2007 11:36 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    1st comment dhaan podala.. ippodhaikku 15th commentaavadhu pottukaren ;-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 3:09 AM, Blogger Bharani said…

    guruve...enna idhu thideernu ippadi oru topic, aduku oru researh, appuram unga thoughts...ellam padika nalla iruku...aana reason ellam konjam confusion-ave iruku

     
  • At January 08, 2007 3:11 AM, Blogger Bharani said…

    but thet these kings od relationships prevail mostly with ppl who have lots of money(with the girl) and dont know what to do with that....

     
  • At January 08, 2007 3:12 AM, Blogger Bharani said…

    sachin's case is slightly diff...as the age difference is very less....but women dating men who are half their age...is just becoz they dont know what to do :)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 3:36 AM, Blogger prithz said…

    Idha vechu nalla debate pannalaam... nice post KK!

    btw, i feel the medical reasons are quite true. Also, i guess its got something to do with the physical strength of women - it mite be a lot of stress on the woman to go thru those 10 months if she is old and physically unfit...

    in earlier days, i wud probably guess this - men were the ones working outside home, n in a very physically demanding job atmosphere... women more or less confined to work inside home.. so this cud prolly mean that men mite become physically dependent on someone else, much earlier than women do. Now if the man's wife is younger than him, then she can support him better...

    my 2 cents worth :)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 5:24 AM, Blogger Jeevan said…

    Now day’s non-look the age only the personality! I don't hope old guy's should only marry and love with young girls.

    I think the life will be smooth if the age difference is below 10 years for both.

     
  • At January 08, 2007 8:17 AM, Blogger Hell's Angel said…

    this is quite a baffling subject.. but anyway nowadays its a matter of fondness towards one another thts it.. i think it has become a more of show business

     
  • At January 08, 2007 9:02 AM, Blogger golmaalgopal said…

    quite an interestin one to ponder upon....even i believe in dat evolutionary psychology...though it has evolved(on papers) in recent yrs it was always there...folk theory hee hee...romba chinna ponna irukkum if it's a case of late marriage... :)))

    apparam y this has cropped up suddenly???brainwaves eh?? :D

     
  • At January 08, 2007 12:26 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    //Aiswarya kitta irunthu date'ku invitation vanthuthu//

    ungaluku invite vandhuruchaa...enaku innum oru 2 or 3 yrs aagumnu nenaikaren...appo thaana enaku dating ku correct age varum :-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 1:11 PM, Blogger Kittu said…

    indha rangela ponaa amricaavae gemini ganesan maari seekiram aagividum doi :-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 1:12 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @KK : //yenakkum Aiswarya kitta irunthu date'ku invitation vanthuthu.... seekiram meet pannalamnu irukom :)//
    @Syam : //enaku innum oru 2 or 3 yrs aagumnu nenaikaren...appo thaana enaku dating ku correct age varum :-) //
    Yappa raasaakalae.. indha anda puzhugan aagaasa puzhugana pathilaan kelvi pattirukken... aana inga dhaan nerla paakaren.. aanalum unga ravusa thaanga mudila da saami ;-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 1:14 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    Nalla vela.. Kittu mama oru nimisham munnadi commenta pottaru.. illati 25th commenta miss panni iruppen :-D Seri KK 25th commentukku oru special ceylon parotta parcel anupidunga :)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 1:20 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @Syam : Naan KK post count panni paathutten.. avar 68aiyum dhaanadi currenta 73la irukkaru ;-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 3:12 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    //Naan KK post count panni paathutten.. avar 68aiyum dhaanadi currenta 73la irukkaru//

    @g3,

    athuthaan ippo dating pathi pesa aarambichutaaru..inimey apdiye meeting,wedding nu seekiram nadakum :-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 3:13 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    //Yappa raasaakalae.. indha anda puzhugan aagaasa puzhugana pathilaan kelvi pattirukken... //

    @g3, LOL....

    ithukey asandhu poitaa epdi...ithu ellam summa oru 10% thaan :-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 4:20 PM, Blogger Sandai-Kozhi said…

    In those days earlier marriage and kids at the early age for women is accepted Madically and Psycologically. More than men,women undergo lots of hormonal changes.They also mature in their thinking very faster than men.For ex,16vayasu ponnu paiyan rendu perukkum vidyasam niraya.Then ippo trend vayasana ponnugalai kalyanam pannikiradhu.
    Don't mistake me.Pasangala nimmadhiya,happya irukanumna idhula irangadheenga.Argue pannradhu yellathukkum pannalam.
    ippovae Indian culture Kite pola oru thin thread la poindu irukku.Idhoda after effects will be too bad for the next generation.
    (yedho solla ninachen.thappunna forgive me.kannu munnadi oru jodi irukku.Avanga padara padu pathudhan sollren.Don't go for this.)--SKM

     
  • At January 08, 2007 5:35 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @syam : //athuthaan ippo dating pathi pesa aarambichutaaru..inimey apdiye meeting,wedding nu seekiram nadakum :-) //
    Appo seekiram kalyaana saapadu potruvaarunnu sollunga.. :-) [KK, this one stritcly not in fedex :P]

    //ellam summa oru 10% thaan :-) //
    Adada.. 10% kkae indha effecta? range-a thaan irukkeenga :-)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 6:26 PM, Blogger Keshi said…

    lol and I believe Love is deaf too....thats why my man isnt hearing my call :)

    Keshi.

     
  • At January 08, 2007 8:35 PM, Blogger priya said…

    KK: Enna track mathiteengala?? Neengaluma ipdi.... Yaar andha oldy gf kk..

    I think people who get along with young and old like to have a stable relation coz someway or the other the other person is more thinkable/ agreeable due to age and ther is an easy way to let go when young people make mistakes.

    Age doesn't matter for love and spicy bed kk:-))

     
  • At January 08, 2007 9:00 PM, Blogger Krithika said…

    Interestin post..n when its comes to woman-older-than-man..they have entirely diff. plains of thinking,talking and emotional maturity levels are also not the same..most imp,dun think it will suite our culture (my opionion)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 9:13 PM, Blogger Harish said…

    KK nanba...
    edaavudu Aunty a daavu katti kanaalam katta poriya? Post padichcha bayama irukkae ;)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 10:51 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @G3 - //avan kedakkaraan panamaramnu sonna correcta irukkum ;-)//
    Avanum naanu ore height than so he is sundaika :)
    15 accepted :)

    @Brute - Congratulations Brute :) Magar kab huva??? ;)

    @Bharani - No confusion... theliva oru qarter adichutu padinga yellam puriyum :)
    Correct, its currently with the higher society people.. but it wont be long for it to penerate down...
    Sachin'a 5yrs which is quite a number in an Indian society.

    @Prithz - Biology madam neenga medical reasons true sonna me will accept with no doubt.
    And you have got a great point, yeah physical ability would have also been a reason. Good thinking Prithz... :)

    @Jeevan - hmm yeah true Jeevan.. Less than 10 yrs surely... but I feel anything more than 5yrs itself is a lot of time. What do you think :)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 10:51 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @Hell's Angel - Yeah quite true... its indeed become a show business... just for media attraction...
    Welcome to my blog. Hope to see you around :)

    @GolmaalGopal - Vanakkam thala! Well I too accept it to an extent... I saw a program on Discovery which was about this evolutionary theory. It was quite interesting...
    Yeah this folk theory creates a huge age difference when the age is high... I dont agree to it :)
    Brainwaves always has some random thots... no particular reason...

    @Syam - oh 2-3 yrs la aish'a??? yenakku by then Vidya Balan kidaichuduvaanga :) appuram rendu perum sernthu Goa beach'la dating... pal pal pal.... appadinu paatu vera.. :D

    @Kittu - Naama peruma padanum Gemini ganesan yethana perukku oru munnodiya irukaaru :D

    @G3 - Innum niraya irukku :) Ithuke thalarnthuta yeppadi...
    25 adicha G3'ku oru MMKR spl pulippu muttai :)
    50 adicheengana Punnagai Mannan spl ceylon parota :)

    @G3 and Syam - Oruthar 350 post (M.Karthikeyan) pote chumma than irukaar namakku yenga??? :D

     
  • At January 08, 2007 10:52 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @SKM - Ithu naan chumma ketan SKM.... yenakku intha maathiri idea'lam kidayathu... Hormone changes I agree... and hmm good point infact to explain why women think more mature than men in their teens :)
    Chumma oru discussion'ku ithu interesting'a irukenu ketan... Yeah Indian culture is losing to West... Well I guess its not wrong as long as we take the good things from both the west and the east cultures :)
    SKM, neenga solla ninachathu sollunga... thappe kidayaathu... Infact I would like to see different views... I can learn a lot... :D

    @G3 - //Appo seekiram kalyaana saapadu potruvaarunnu sollunga.. :-)//
    Arun sonna maathiri Thiruvilayadal style'a try panni yen pakkathu cubicle Blonde set aana yellarkum Kalyaana Burger vendumna anupuren... :D

    @Keshi - conk your man... because love hurts.. :D He will then give you a call :D (Jus kidding, dont hit him seriously)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 10:52 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @Priya - Hello mudive panniteengala... naan yetho oru aarva kolaarla oru kelvi ketan athukku oldy gf'a??
    Itha yenga appa amma paartha veetliye serka maataanga...
    HTBM ozhunga yenakku ponnu parthu iruntha naan yean ippadi yosikka poren :D
    Naan think pannurathu than neengalum think pannureenga :D

    @Krithika - I think even otherwise the plains of thinking is pretty different for men and women. But if the women is of younger age she may tend to give up and accept her husband's...
    Yep, I agree it wont suite our culture... but its not far away from happening commonly in India.... once upon a time even love marriage was not for our culture but its become pretty common now, thats why I thought I will think ahead of times like Balachandar :D

    @Harish - Hello naan aunty'a lam daavu adikala pa... ponnu kodukravangalum keduthuduveenga pola irukku :D
    Chumma namma iyakunar sigaram KB maathiri yosichen avaluv than :)

     
  • At January 08, 2007 11:00 PM, Blogger Ganesh Ranganathan said…

    hmm looks like KK's looking for someone older.... :-))

     
  • At January 09, 2007 12:13 AM, Blogger Dr@ma Div@ said…

    kk,
    the 'older women, younger men' syndrome is back to town!

    yeah older women are sexier :P
    bcoz their more wiser and more self-sufficient....

     
  • At January 09, 2007 4:18 AM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    aaha naama konjam seekramavey vandhutom pola? ;)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 4:20 AM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    innoru vishamum irukku kk. Sila josiya kaaranga paathengana... 60 vayasu kelavan innum konja varsham uyiroda irukanumna oru 16 vayasu figura kalyanam pannanum'nu solvaanga. Udanaye inniko naaliko nu irukra andha naaadhari.. oru ponnoda vaazhkaya aniyayama paaladichiduvaan! IDIOTS!

     
  • At January 09, 2007 4:21 AM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    adhu "Vishayamum"! Thavarudhalaaga type seidhu vitten! :)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 7:32 AM, Blogger Sat said…

    romba naal kalichu ella bloglayum oru round ulavalamnu vandhen...naraya miss panniten pola....enakku indha age difference pathina algorithm ellam theriyadhu...if u ask me, no matter what the age is, if people's level of maturity is going to be similar, then there u go...but more than age, what baffles me is the relationship where a woman is more successful than a man. somehow, no matter which country the guy is from...no matter how open minded the society is, these relationships hardly last long enough...recent-a aana reese witherspoon-ryan phillipe break up for instance. i think more than age, it's ego that matters...when the balance tips over in that part...it all comes crashing down!

    P.S: Ashton kutcher-ku en ippadi buddhi pochu :'( sob sob...tcha...avasara pattutaan! :D

     
  • At January 09, 2007 7:38 AM, Blogger Sat said…

    IMO, what might attract younger men to older women might be their confidence, their independence, their wisdom...it's got to be a smart woman!...or pamela anderson :P
    for younger girls to be attracted to older men, well...i might sound very blunt, but it's got to be power!...money, power...it's rarely out of true love or similar such virtually non existant things.

     
  • At January 09, 2007 8:05 AM, Blogger Karthikeyan said…

    Kanna KK, enna oru araaichi.. Puthucha Ethum ezhuthi Ph.D vangiduveenga pola theriyuthE..

     
  • At January 09, 2007 8:07 AM, Blogger Karthikeyan said…

    Athu Naan (mkarthik.blogspot.com) thaan KK.. puthu bloggerla en peru correcta display aka mattenguthunnu NInaikiREn :-(

     
  • At January 09, 2007 9:18 AM, Blogger Syam said…

    //@G3 and Syam - Oruthar 350 post (M.Karthikeyan) pote chumma than irukaar namakku yenga??? //

    it means avaru 5.5 gandam la irundhu thappichuraatu nu artham :-)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 9:18 AM, Blogger Syam said…

    50 :-)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 9:33 AM, Blogger G3 said…

    hello syam.. idhu sadhi.. en ceylon parottakku aapu vechiteengalae :-(

     
  • At January 09, 2007 9:35 AM, Blogger G3 said…

    @KK : //Kalyaana Burger vendumna anupuren... //
    Ennadhu anuppareengala? appo kalyaanathukku invitationlaan kedayaadha? idhu aniyaayam :(

    Seri syam 50th place-a pudichitaaru.. 51-aavadhu moi vechadhukku edhaavadhu paathu pottu kudunga :)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 9:37 AM, Blogger Syam said…

    g3, sari vidunga athigama saapita udambuku aagaathu :-)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 10:44 AM, Blogger G3 said…

    @Syam : ungalukku dhanae.. appadina onnu pannunga, KK ungalukku anuppara parcela enakku reroute pannidunga :P

    @KK : Yeppa KK, parcel inga reroute aagaradhaala saapidara itema anuppunga.. kudikkara itema anuppidaadheenga ;-)

     
  • At January 09, 2007 5:28 PM, Blogger Keshi said…

    if and when I see him really, I'll not only conk him, I'll bash him black n blue LOL!

    Keshi.

     
  • At January 09, 2007 7:14 PM, Anonymous angelrosado said…

    lol might be some older women age so badly no one their age has the b... or desire to be with them, just wonder why it's generally they are rich or famous, i haven't seen any case like this when she's poor (let alone poor and ugly or sick...lol)
    my brother married a woman 12 years older than him when he was 17 (she was my mom's friend)... with them it was a sex thing bcs he was the one with the money (or my dad in any case), she got him adicted to her sex, it lasted 6 years, he hates her now bcs when the heat went away and he saw he married an ugly witch he realised he had almost wasted his youth and jeopardized his life bcs of that stupid mistake

    a high society thing? name what high society you are referring to, as far as i've seen people laugh at the boy and feel pity or disgust for the old champ

    i like demi though

     
  • At January 09, 2007 7:18 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    yes but also def a young guy is much more adventuous, naive and has much higher sex drive, any older woman would give her life for a 24 hr woody, right?

    ... lol

    lmao

     
  • At January 09, 2007 8:31 PM, Anonymous s0ul said…

    duuuude, great post.. i thk men get hotter as they grow older... take michael douglas.. robert redford.. amitabh bachchan even.. but looks like the trend is gettng reversed these days..

     
  • At January 09, 2007 8:51 PM, Anonymous Anonymous said…

    yeah but then they need viagra (lol), it's all about sex, only in hollywood!

    older men marry younger women, i guess people can't stand to see their wrinkles when they show up, at least people with low self steem, specially actors, etc

    might actually be a good trend like this the planet's population stops incresing so much...

     
  • At January 10, 2007 1:12 AM, Blogger chitra said…

    Recent eg being Abhishek Bachchan and Aishwarya Rai.

    Yes, even I have always wondered about this and the reason given was women tend to mature early in their mental thoughts.Reding the comments, I felt you are a Tamilian, Probably you would have heard of a festival Karadiyar Nombu , wherein the women pray for the long life of their husbands. Unlike the north, this thread is worn by even small girl children and the explanation given is soewhere her man is already born.

     
  • At January 10, 2007 3:27 AM, Blogger artnavy said…

    i guess it doe snot matter

    it is as much an issue as
    "should a woman be better looking than her husband....." ( read fairer If in india)

     
  • At January 10, 2007 3:30 AM, Blogger Jeevan said…

    What do you think? I welcome it!

     
  • At January 10, 2007 4:55 AM, Blogger oliveoyl said…

    nalla analysis!!!!

     
  • At January 10, 2007 7:57 AM, Blogger reborn said…

    I feel there is nothing wrong in such relations as long as involved ones are happy !!

    I feel in olden days, women were meant only for reproduction purpose. If any importance was given to them , it s for that potential in them ... All through their reproductive age , say from about 15 yrs onwards , till late thirties or early 40 s , they did that .. 10 , 15 children !! They had nothing else to do , or even if they wanted they could nt do ...for a man age is not an issuse for that .. so usually girls were younger than boys..

    Now women are having their say ...atleast at times ! when mental frequencies match , age doesnt come in between ...

     
  • At January 10, 2007 10:45 AM, Blogger Kittu said…

    sari vandhadhukku 65 aavadha thoovittu poraen :)

     
  • At January 10, 2007 10:46 AM, Blogger Kittu said…

    @syam
    //ha ha ha romba naal atchu first comment pottu// kavala padaatha maamu. ennooda niraya postla 0 comments dhaan...nidhaana ma vandhu podu hehe

     
  • At January 10, 2007 11:19 AM, Blogger Ponnarasi Kothandaraman said…

    Athukulla oru post pottu..Comment'um aacha :O

    Oru ettu solla koodathu vanthu :P Hehehe...

    Mukiyamana topic ;)

     
  • At January 10, 2007 12:21 PM, Blogger Javitz said…

    lol super post, I was thinking of what to write and voila,you have given me something.

    Javitz

     
  • At January 10, 2007 12:27 PM, Blogger Syam said…

    //kavala padaatha maamu. ennooda niraya postla 0 comments dhaan...nidhaana ma vandhu podu hehe
    //

    @kittu mams,

    unga blog open pannaley ennoda IE ella windows um iluthu moodikuthu...enna problem ne theriala athunaala thaan unga blog pakkame vara mudiyala..ethukum konjam template check pannungalen :-)

     
  • At January 10, 2007 4:37 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @Ganesh - Its none other than Aishwarya Rai :D

    @Drama Diva - Back in town??? you mean it was there before??? Thats news to me :)
    Hmmm... point noted older women are sexier ;)

    @Karthik B.S - Yeah, gud point BSK... Josiyamndra perula oora yemaathitu irukaanga sila peru :)
    Namakku intha maathiri oru josiyakaran maate maatenguraan :)

    @Sat - Amam... konjam miss panniteenga... no problem porumaiya padichu unga karutha sollunga :)
    I too think its more to do with ego... than with the women being successful... There are women celebrities who have a great marriage too... if the individuals in a couple to not appreciate and complement each other then that marriage is not going to last long enough...
    Nammala maathiri wise people think alike :)
    Irunthaalum Demi Moore intha vayasulayum hmmmmm.... :)
    Again I agree with success, independence and wisdom are key factors for young men to get attracted to older women.
    But women like Pamela Anderson... neah I dont think so... We can find replacement for her in the younger generation...
    Bingo!! on young women towards older men.

    @M.Karthikeyan - Naanlam Phd vaagita appuram antha degree kodukarthiye niruthiduvaanga :)
    I guessed its you :)

     
  • At January 10, 2007 4:37 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @Syam - meethi yethana Gandam, Syam??? :)
    Super duper Syam!!! neenga 1st and 50th!!
    Inthaanga Fish Fry + Bacardi :)

    @G3 - Better luck next time G3 :)
    51'ku oru kamarkut :) ensoi :)
    Syam thaniya saapida matar, naanga Katchi oppicela yellarkum share pannithan saapiduvom... micha meethi iruntha koduthu anupurom :) ehehehehe :)

    @Keshi - No wonder, no guy dares to you :D
    Already you stare at people (based on ur pics) now bashing also :)

    @AngelRosado - Welcome to my blog AngelRosado!!! Hope to see you around :)
    Sad to know about your brother... I agree with you that it mostly occurs only among rich and famous...I meant the rich and famous by the high society...
    I too like Demi...

    @Imao - Welcome to my blog Imao!!! Hope to see you around :)
    I agree with you 100% lol!!!

     
  • At January 10, 2007 4:38 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @S0ul - Hey S0ul!!! Howdy??? Wassup??
    I guess its pretty much from a gals point of view :) We guys always look out for young chicks only :D

    @Anonymous - Welcome!! Yeah agree with you that atleast this will bring down the world's population... :D

    @Chitra - Oh is AB Jr younger than Ash??? Wow!! I didnt know that :D
    Yeah I know nombu.... But didnt know the reason for it :)
    But in our house everyone wears that thread... Prolly in our house we pray for the good health of the wife also :)

    @ArtNavy - Do they really search for a woman who is better looking than the husband?? Then I would prefer Gracy Singh :)

    @Jeevan - I know only to ask question :) I dont think :D

    @OliveOyl - Thanks you Busy Madam :)

    @Reborn - Yup patriarchy treated women like that only, only for reproduction...I know 10 -15 children... they must have been like machines :)
    I agree with you, Great minds think alike... welcome to the group of great minds :p (Jus Kidding)

     
  • At January 10, 2007 4:38 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @Kittu - Nandri... aana padikalaya???

    @Ponnarasi - Mukiyamana topic than... unga karuthu??
    Adutha vaatila irunthu sollidruren Madam... :)

    @Javitz - Welcome Javitz the Poet :) Hope to see you around :)
    Waiting to see you post... want to see what my post evoked :)

    @Syam - I dont have any such problem... when I go to Kittu's blog...

     
  • At January 10, 2007 4:42 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    chey.. 75th comment podalaamnu aasaya vandhen.. neenga kudukkara pulippu mittaikkum kamarakattum commentaradhu waste.. so me no 75th comment :(

     
  • At January 10, 2007 7:14 PM, Blogger Keshi said…

    haha yep!

    Keshi.

     
  • At January 10, 2007 8:50 PM, Blogger Dr@ma Div@ said…

    duh....

    FYI, our phophet muhamad married an older woman.. :P

     
  • At January 11, 2007 12:55 AM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    //Namakku intha maathiri oru josiyakaran maate maatenguraan :)
    //

    aaha appo ungalukku oru 16 vayasu figure venuma??? ;) ;) ;)

     
  • At January 11, 2007 2:39 AM, Blogger Sat said…

    ada naa pam anderson-a sonnadhu chumma oru udharanathuku :)
    appada...ennayum wise ppl pattiyal sethuteenga...daank you :D
    appadiye ungalyum sethu kiteenga (!)...pona pogudhu :P

     
  • At January 11, 2007 4:36 AM, Blogger Łóòň Ġãĺ said…

    I think I would go with ur friend says ... and yeah the fertility thing is important as well.

     
  • At January 11, 2007 8:16 PM, Blogger Viji said…

    karuthulla padhivu.. :PPPPPPPP
    I don't know what to say.. yaara pudichurukko kalyanam pannikka vendidhu dhan.. ;) idhula enna aaraichi? :))

     
  • At January 12, 2007 4:41 AM, Blogger Jeevan said…

    Dear Friend. Wish you a Happy Pongalo Pongal:)

     
  • At January 12, 2007 7:46 AM, Anonymous Lera said…

    KK, you do have quite an Interesting post and equally interesting reasonings .I do agree it's becoming a major trend .

    Wishing you a Happy Pongal & a great weekend..:)

     
  • At January 12, 2007 3:50 PM, Blogger G3 said…

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    quatre-vingt-dix-neuf

     
  • At January 12, 2007 3:54 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    Century!!!! hurray!!!!

     
  • At January 12, 2007 3:57 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    Unga punniyathula naan konjam french numbers kathukitten.. :)

    Wish you a very Happy Pongal !!! and special wishes for ur (b)'day (Maatu pongal) :P

     
  • At January 12, 2007 5:23 PM, Blogger Arunkumar said…

    KK,
    virus alert... some new g3 virus attacking ur comment section !!!
    Take preventive action ASAP :)

    இனிய பொங்கள் வாழ்த்துக்கள் :)

     
  • At January 12, 2007 5:35 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @Arun : G3 Virusa? Ada paavi.. unakku poi paavam paathen paaru.. enna sollanum.. adutha post irukku ma unakku vettu :P

    @KK : Aana unmaiya solanumna en commenta scroll panni paakkum bodhu verum veeda theriyudha.. enakkae voodu katti adicha oru effectu ;-)

     
  • At January 12, 2007 6:45 PM, Blogger Vidya said…

    Hmm...I am just wondering Has India changed enough to accept the younger man-older woman relationship? Just a thought ?!

     
  • At January 12, 2007 10:08 PM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    g3 full formla irukeenga pola? :)

     
  • At January 13, 2007 9:06 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @BSK : :-)

     
  • At January 13, 2007 10:43 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @G3 - Kamarkatt'a avaluv kevalama pesaatheenga.... namma ooru traditional toffee :)

    @Keshi - :D

    @Drama Diva - oh ok! thats news to me :)

    @Karthik B.S - 16'lam vendam 26 pothum :D

    @Sat - Naan wise neenga vayasu (old age) ;p

    @Loon Gal - Welcome to my blog. Hope to see you around. :) Kewl! :D

    @Viji - Yep karuthulla pathivu...
    Science naatula oru araichi panna koodatha?? :D

    @Jeevan - Thanks Jeevan. Wish you the same :D

    @Lera - Thanks Lera.
    Wishing you too a very Happy Pongal and a great weekend :)

     
  • At January 13, 2007 10:43 PM, Blogger KK said…

    @G3 - Merci beaucoup mademoiselle G3. Tres bien...Je suis très heureux... Vous vous êtes gagnés un poulet Biryani et les poissons font frire.

    @Arun - Konjam vittu pudipom arun... G3 kombukkuku paint adika poranganu avanga kushiya irukaanga :p
    Iniya pongal vaazhthukal Arun... Sakkarai pongal senju saapidunga :)

    @G3 - Aama zornakka... oodu katti adicha effect :) Neenga adichu naan thaanguvena?? Chinna paiyan naan :)

    @Vidya - Well I guess it has atleast in the high society segment... I heard there are lots of such pair ups in Mumbai Delhi and Bangalore.

    @Karthik B.S - Maatu pongal varuthula athan... ;)

     
  • At January 14, 2007 5:29 AM, Blogger Ganesh said…

    Aishwarya rai aa? idhellam konja over'aa theriyale

     
  • At January 14, 2007 10:21 AM, Blogger prithz said…

    Hey... is the first time ur blog has reached century comments? Comgrats KK!

    now post new post! :D

    Happy pongal to u! send some pongal for me also oki?

     
  • At January 14, 2007 12:14 PM, Blogger Usha said…

    Happy pongal kk :) Sema topic, oruvelai young payyana irundha adikardhuku easy-nu ninaichirupangalo? :))

     
  • At January 14, 2007 6:00 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    //Merci beaucoup mademoiselle G3. Tres bien...Je suis très heureux... Vous vous êtes gagnés un poulet Biryani et les poissons font frire.//
    Ennamo soldreengannu mattum puriyudhu.. aana ennanu dhaan puriyala :(

    Aana.. enakku thevayaana onnu mattum nalla theriyudhu adhu... //Biryani//.. Indha oru vaathai Podhumae ;-)

    //Neenga adichu naan thaanguvena?? //
    appadi thaan naanum nenachen.. aana avlo adiyum vaangittu innum steadya illa reply pottirukkeenga :P

     
  • At January 14, 2007 6:21 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    **vaathai = vaarthai :) [Konjam mazhalai baashai etti paathuduchu ;)]

    Me too joining prithz.. New post!! New post!!! :D

     
  • At January 15, 2007 5:57 AM, Blogger prithz said…

    @ g3 - LOL! if u notice that, after briyani, 'poissons' nu oru word varuthu.. he is tryin to mix poison in briyani.. saptudadinga g3! neenga day by day powerful aindu poringa nu.. edhirkatchi sathi.. careful!

     
  • At January 15, 2007 7:04 AM, Blogger Has to be me said…

    Ahaaaaaaa KK....enna oru topic...enna oru discussion.....engayooooooo poitay po!!!
    edhuku ivalo research ellam theva illai....simple equation than...two minds & soul shd be able 2 equate with each other, if so they blend well, irrespective of the age factor.
    Happy pongal & happy cow pongal! :)

     
  • At January 15, 2007 10:01 AM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    inna varravanga poravanga ellam (Read G3 and Prithz) commentu podraanga, naan... unga friendu poda koodadha? commentu count increase pannanumla!

     
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  • At January 15, 2007 6:52 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    125!!!!

     
  • At January 15, 2007 6:54 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @BSK : 123kku aduthu 124 raasa.. numbers kooda marandhu pocha? Seri edho un punniyathula naan 125th comment pottuten :)

    @KK : 125th commentukku enna special? Adhuvum unga b'daykku modhal naal pottirukken.. edhaavadhu paathu pottu kudunga :)

     
  • At January 15, 2007 6:58 PM, Blogger G3 said…

    @Prithz : Naanum adha paathen.. adhula oru S kooda irundhadhaala poisona irukkaadhunnu nenachen.. adhulayum namma KK appadilaan panna maatarunnu oru nambikkai [Ennadhu.. inga irundha ice ellam theendhu pochaa.. seri seri wait pannunga.. KK 125th commentukku neraya icecreama anuppuvaaru :D]

     
  • At January 15, 2007 8:34 PM, Blogger Karthik B.S. said…

    G3, inna sadhi idhu! :(

     

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